US: Mary & Joseph - Steve Parrish
We have a tendency to romanticize Bible stories. As each unfolds in our mind, they do so on a big screen with an epic soundtrack and dynamic visual effects. We often miss that each one took place on an average day, in a regular neighborhood, and in the lives of common people, just like you and me.
But they were common people with remarkable qualities. And it was those remarkable qualities that positioned those common people to experience God giving birth to the miraculous in their lives! This series is to draw your attention to those common people, to see the us in them, and do lean into their remarkable qualities so that His eternal purposes can come to life in our lives.
Matthew 1:18–21 (ESV) Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly. But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.”Mary &
Joseph were positioned to hear as Heaven spoke.
Heaven Is Always Speaking. The Miraculous Is Unlocked As We Are Positioned To Hear.
Every miracle in your life will begin with God speaking followed by you hearing. The key is to continue to position yourself to hear. Right NOW.
Mary:
Luke 1:28, 30-31 (ESV) And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!” And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus.
Joseph:
Matthew 1:19 (ESV) And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly.
resolved – to think with the purpose of planning a course of action
Matthew 1:20–22 (ESV) But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet:
considered: to process information by giving consideration to various aspects
Matthew 11:15 (ESV) He who has ears to hear, let him hear.
Revelation: Revelation 2:7 (ESV) He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To the one who conquers I will grant to eat of the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.’
ears - not only the ability, but the responsibility
hear – pay attention and respond
Today there are more distractions than any ever, because this time matters on earth more than any other
God wants to do more today than any other collective time in history! It starts with being tuned into him.
God can speak out of the blue, but hearing is enhanced:
create moments of listening
read and listen to the word
podcasts & books
create environments to encounter the one speaking
dynamic environment with the Spirit engaged
John 14:26 (ESV) But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.
prayer, corporate worship
This is something we do; something others do on our behalf.
put your children in a place to have an encounter with heaven
we can’t guarantee the response, but we can guarantee the opportunity
our highest call is not our children’s graduation, getting a good job, marriage, good relationship with us
create moments to hear from and respond to God
Mary & Joseph were recognized as righteous.
Right Living Best Positions Us For All That God Wants To Do For Us, In Us And Through Us.
God can do anything, anywhere for anyone at any time. But he consistently does his best things frequently in the lives of those who live according to His Word.
Mary - Luke 1:27–29 (ESV) to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin’s name was Mary. And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!” But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and tried to discern what sort of greeting this might be.
her righteous life had earned her favor with God
Joseph - Matthew 1:19 (ESV) And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly.
he had every right to rub her face in her “assumed sin”
his response – protect her
right-living matters to God
right-living aligns us with God
right-living best positions us for His purposes
wanting one thing when heaven wants another, and yielding…
Mary - Luke 1:38 (ESV) And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her.
Joseph - Matthew 1:20–25 (ESV) But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet: “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means, God with us). When Joseph woke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him: he took his wife, but knew her not until she had given birth to a son. And he called his name Jesus.
submission isn’t real until there is a burn, and redirection of the will
obedience is a reality when you want to do something else.
Some people willfully sin because they know God will forgive.
Romans 6:1–2 (ESV) What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? By no means!
Hebrews 10:26–27 (ESV) For if we go on sinning deliberately after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, but a fearful expectation of judgment, and a fury of fire that will consume the adversaries.
1 John 3:6–10 (ESV) No one who abides in him keeps on sinning; no one who keeps on sinning has either seen him or known him. Little children, let no one deceive you. Whoever practices righteousness is righteous, as he is righteous. Whoever makes a practice of sinning is of the devil, for the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the works of the devil. No one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God’s seed abides in him; and he cannot keep on sinning, because he has been born of God. By this it is evident who are the children of God, and who are the children of the devil: whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is the one who does not love his brother.
The Unintended Consequences Of Sin :
brings injury to your relationship with God
limits the function of the Holy Spirit
give the devil a foothold and his resources
pledges obedience to sin
invites deception
negatively impacts the faith of others
makes it difficult for God’s best to unfold
Right-living:
cannot be allowed to turn into self-righteousness
that turns into self-righteousness is offensive to God
cannot lifts lf up and looks down on others
self-righteousness omits the cross
possible because of His grace
Luke 18:9–14 (ESV) He also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and treated others with contempt: “Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee, standing by himself, prayed thus: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I get.’ But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a sinner!’ I tell you, this man went down to his house justified, rather than the other. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”
Mary & Joseph: aligned with Biblical sexuality
Honoring Biblical Sexuality Unites Us With Heaven And Protects Us From Being United With _______________________.
Our relationship with God is incredibly intimate - His Spirit lives within us
Sex unites us, body soul and spirit with someone else in a way that can only be compared to the closeness God wants to have with us.
Have you ever invited someone too close and then couldn’t get rid of them?
Matthew 1:18 (ESV) …Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together …
Luke 1:, 34 (ESV) And Mary said to the angel, “…I am a virgin?”
Culture has always had something to say about what is sexually in bounds.
Man has always had desires and experiences outside of those bounds
Sex is a gift from God.
Sex unites us, body soul and spirit with someone else in a way that is only comparable to the closeness God wants to have with us.
To bring something that close that is out of bounds will affect you, and will affect your relationship with God, not to mention your relationship with others
1 Corinthians 6:18–19 (ESV) Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own,
1 Corinthians 6:15–17 (ESV) Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? Never! Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.” But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him.
Some of the greatest acts of worship and offerings you can give to God is burn you experience when obedient in moments of sexual temptation.